We’ve all seen at least one friend who is trying so hard to find “the One” that she almost gives off an air of desperation as she scans the room everywhere she goes to see if he is here.
We’ve probably advised them to stop trying so hard, but then we know its so much easier to say than to do, especially if you are lonely.
Your friend knows at some subtle level that all this desperate activity probably isn’t going to work, yet she doesn’t know what else to do – after all, she isn’t going to find him by just sitting at home is she?
So what is really at play here? Why doesn’t it work?
Part of the reason is the Law of Attraction. Basically this is a natural law, just like gravity, that is always working. It can perhaps most easily be described by thinking of ourselves as a human magnet. We will attract more of what is inside of us and draw it to us, just like a magnet does.
So if you are running around, feeling lonely, desperately trying to find the perfect partner, you are full of anxiety, and loneliness and this is what you will attract into your life…. More of the same.
Exactly what you don’t want!
What if we did the inner work first, cleaned up our loneliness, neutralized the desperation behind our search and concentrated on feeling good in ourself first? Once we are happy, complete and healed, the law of attraction will pull a whole different set of things to us. This time, we may actually be happy when more of the same starts showing up: A person who feels good about themselves, who is grounded and happy.
Starting a relationship from this place gives you such a better chance of success. Most of us do it the other way round and look for someone else to make us feel better. Then we wonder why we keep attracting people who are looking for us to make them better too. And the downward spiral begins.
If you’d like to work on releasing all your old “stuff” keeping you stuck in the same place, attracting the same relationship patterns over and over again, then come and find out more about the audio program I have put together with my good friend, Christine Conway.
Christine heals your home environment, supporting you externally as you make this wonderful transition. With Feng Shui tips and techniques, she’ll help you cleanse old energy from your space and activate the relationship corner of your home.
I heal the old wounds you have picked up through life. I’ll help improve your self esteem, mend your broken heart, and feel worthy of receiving a wonderful relationship into your life.
Together we weave our magic, transforming your inner and outer energy and steering you through the change process to feel complete again and attract the relationship of your dreams.
Needless to say, both of us have successfully attracted our ideal relationships using techniques we will share with you here.
If you want to have a look at the 8 week pre-recorded audio program and workbook, take a look here.